You learned young that being useful is how you stay loved. And everything around you since has backed that up: teachers liked you, bosses promoted you, nobody ever worried about you. It's just never occurred to you to wonder what happens if you stop. Or what it's cost you to keep going.
Therapy for Anxiety & Overwhelm in Millennial Women
You didn’t wake up one day and decide to feel exhausted, anxious, or like you’re never enough. You for sure didn't ask for migraines, unexplained neck pain, and jaw tension that has grinding through your night gaurd twice a year.
You took the lessons from childhood that taught and rewarded you for being the "good" and "easy" kid. You knew that love and approval came from making things easier for people around you.
As an adult, society...AHEM, the patriarchy...doubled down on these early lessons. It was easy to work more than everyone else secure the promotion (without a pay increase, but they say it's coming!). You knew that you'd be liked if you.
(And Why It’s Not Your Fault)
Why You’re Overwhelmed...
↠ Emotional overwhelm
Your brain doesn’t stop, your body can’t relax, and even small decisions feel like too much. That’s not because you’re broken, it’s because your nervous system has been stuck in overdrive for way too long.
Straight-A student, gold star employee, the one who always has it handled. But under the performance is a constant hum of “don’t screw this up.” Achievement looks shiny, but it’s exhausting when it’s driven by fear instead of joy.
↠ the go-to-gal
You learned early on that being “easy” and agreeable kept the peace. Now it feels impossible to say no without guilt. That pattern doesn’t mean you’re weak, it means you were surviving.
↠ People Pleasing
The problem isn't you, it's the impossible expectations ou've been carrying.
Rebuild Calm & Clarity Without Losing Your Sensitivity or your strength
Your nervous system has been stuck on high alert, making it nearly impossible to relax or think straight. I’ll show you how to actually downshift with simple, science-backed tools that calm the chaos and let your body remember what grounded feels like.
No more white-knuckling your way through the day. You’ll finally have a way back to steady.
You’ve spent years being the reliable one, the fixer, the peacekeeper, often at great expense of yourself. That constant self-abandonment isn’t noble, it’s draining. Here you’ll learn how to quit defaulting to yes, set boundaries that don’t collapse, and show up without selling yourself out. It’s not selfish, it’s survival done smarter.
The nonstop “what ifs” and mental checklists aren’t a personality trait, they’re a sign your system is maxed out. Instead of trying to talk yourself out of anxiety, you’ll learn how to interrupt the loop and shut down the mental static. The result is more clarity, more rest, and less energy wasted spiraling.
You’ve checked every box and still feel like you’re not there yet. That ends here. This is about dropping the societal script, reclaiming your voice, and owning your choices without apology. Confidence isn’t something you earn, it’s who you become when you’ve been attempting to prove you deserve your own life.
It’s your turn to take up space—unapologetically.
If you’re ready for more than pep talks and Pinterest quotes, let’s do this differently. This is therapy built by women, for women: a space that cuts through the noise and helps you build a life that’s spacious, sustainable, and yours. It’s not about squeezing yourself into someone else’s mold, it’s about designing a version of life where you actually get to breathe, lead, and thrive.
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Feminist, Values-Based Therapy for Women
Still have questions?
Sessions typically occur weekly depending on your needs and goals. I also offer prorated extended 80min and 110min sessions ($400 and $550 respectively). Clients often schedule extended sessions during times of increased stress or when needing decreased frequency of appointments while still wanting the momentum that comes with weekly sessions.
My fee is $250 for 50 minute individual sessions.
As of 2025, I’m fully private-pay. That decision lets me offer care that’s more flexible, personalized, and rooted in your values; not dictated by what an insurance company thinks you need. I can also offer therapy that doesn’t require a diagnosis or is limited to a specific timeframe made up by someone who's never met you. If you have an HSA/FSA or out-of-network benefits, you may still be able to get reimbursed. Just ask, and I’ll walk you through it.
No, but this is intentional and for your benefit.
Therapy is often more exploratory. It’s ideal when you're navigating anxiety, burnout, trauma responses, or emotional patterns that feel tangled and overwhelming. In therapy, we dig deeper, unpacking your inner parts, childhood conditioning, and the systems that have shaped you.
Coaching is more action-focused. We’ll still use the same feminist, values-based lens and some of the same tools (like parts work and nervous system care), but it’s more about moving forward than processing the past. Coaching is perfect if you want direct support, accountability, and a bit of a “get your sh*t together” container, with compassion, of course.
Both include real talk, real tools, and my full support. One isn’t “better” than the other, it’s just about what fits your needs. We'll decide in your inquiry call which option will best support you and your goals.
Great question! and the answer depends on what you need right now.
This is feminist, real-life therapy. You don’t need to show up polished or perfect. If your dog’s barking, if your mom calls three times in a row, if you need to sit down on the floor...that is all part of real life. Show up as you are. This is a space where you get to be yourself without the pressure to perform for anyone else.
Some might say, “it's therapy that feels like talking to your smartest friend, except she has a license, receipts, and real tools.”
Absolutely.
I don’t believe struggling with anxiety, people-pleasing, burnout, or heartbreak automatically means there’s “something wrong with you.” You’re human. That said, if you meet criteria for a diagnosis and want it written down (for clarity or self-understanding), we can talk about that. But this isn’t a place where you’re reduced to a label. It’s a place where all parts of you get to be heard, understood, and supported, no diagnosis required.
Nope. And I won’t force one on you either.
Some clients come in for short-term support (a few months), while others work with me longer to unravel deeper patterns, rebuild confidence, and practice new ways of being. But this is not therapy that drags on forever, we’re doing real, active work here. If we’re not moving the needle, we’ll talk about it and pivot.